bovariancancer

Its incredibly intense to date. Fall in love with someone, be with them, no matter for how long. And then at some point, someone makes a judgement call: I'd rather not have you in my life than have you in my life. And it's of course not that simple, its complicated, nuanced... But essentially, thats exactly whats happening. Someone saying I love you but I'd rather go on without you from this point on. Thats fucking brutal, man. It destroys people. You fall in love with someone, and they fall put of love with you and they make a decision they no longer want you in their life. They want to go forward in their life and they are fine with you not being a part of it.  Good luck getting over that.